Sameer Khadka

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The Real Square. (IM#26)

Health, Wealth, Love and perfect Self-expression complete the square of life. All these element bring a perfect happiness in us.

Self-expression is the art of expressing our inner 'us'. This has a key role in bringing perfect happiness.

Somebody said," No man gives to himself, but himself and no man takes away from himself, but himself." Hence, it is up to us the result depends upon. The square is complete with all of these four element which play a vital role in making our life a divine design.

This is the real square....

Belief Tuning: The Next Law For Success. (IM#25)

Science proved that we can break a glass by playing a guitar. But it’s possible only when the frequency of sound waves of guitar is matched to the natural frequency of the glass and resonance state is attained. This is the reason for breaking of window’s glasses when big airplanes fly.

According to physics, every object has its natural frequency. If the frequency of anything is matched with the frequency of object, then it is said to be in resonant frequency.

Likewise, as a resonant frequency there exist a resonant belief which I call belief tuning. Basically, belief tuning means being able to match with the belief of other people. Everybody has their own core belief (as natural frequency in physics). If you can match or tune with the belief of other people whom you want to attract towards you or your company or to your side, then belief tuning has a key role. It doesn't matter whether you are individual who have a bigger dream or the organization with vision of making magnificent impact, belief tuning is the only way you could reach there.

There must be a perfect belief tuning in order to attain massive success, be a leader or gain power, or attract other towards your principle or values or whatever you are aspiring to become….

One and Only One Energy of Universe (IM#24)

Neale Donald Walsch once said there is only one energy in the universe and that is love. It is expressed in many forms. Fear is also an expression of love; it is an expression of love of getting nothing or an expression of love on something that we are afraid of losing.

If you love nothing, you would fear nothing….

You wouldn’t be afraid of dying if you wouldn’t love living.  Every act emerges as an act of love. Terrorism is also demonstration of love in distorted way. The reason maybe the religious believe, they may admire a philosophy that they love so much; maybe they love a person who they follow so much that they are wiling to hurt others for their love.

Love is one and only one energy in the universe......

Struggle; Our Ally (IM#23)

A mind, full of fear leaves no room for dreams. We are supposed to take a risk, struggle, and overcome adversity. There is nobody who have attained successful life without working right off their face. Literally nobody...

"Struggle for Existence" as recited by Darwin holds true in human nature. If we don't struggle, we'll no more live. This is the law of nature and nobody escapes form it.

We can see- A ship is always safest at the shore but that's not what it was made for; it was made to sail, face tornadoes-it was made to travel the world. Similarly, I believe human are made to struggle for our own existence.

And remember adversity is the absolutely the foundation of massive success.....

Embracing Yourself. (IM#22)

You aim for big. You have bigger dream. You work according to your plan. You duplicate ideas and personality. But still you feel something is missing.

And it is "YOU".....

In the rush of achieving bigger things, you have left your inner "YOU" far behind. In the name of duplicating success, you have admired others instead of admiring yourself.

Master the habit of accepting yourself the way you are.....

Your failures are your failures. Your pains are your pains, your adversity should be annihilated by yourself. Nobody can be the part of your success, failure, pain or whatever that happens to you. It is only YOU, who have the ability to analyze you. Self-analysis is the inception of everything.

Accept the inner 'YOU'.

Take responsibility.

Embrace YOURSELF........

Question To Humanity (IM#21)

They say that the universe is ill-fated that the human race has become more selfish and have forgotten their true meaning. I disagree. I believe that humanity has full of hope and purpose. They have always wanted to create something meaningful and purposeful.

But, there is something that is holding us back; some sorts of barricade....

People want to create some special things to happen but why do they act like everybody else? They talk about artificial intelligence and universal intelligence but why do they struggle to employ those in their real life?

They talk about the importance of time but they are the one who waste their most precious time into worthless things. What is that, in humanity, instead of having thirst to create something substantial, they are incapable of devising it?

Hacking Whatever You Want (IM#20)

“If you set goals and go after them with all the determination you can muster, your gifts will take you places that will amaze you.” — Les Brown

There are three road map for hacking whatever you want, whether that is the life or the business. They are:

  1. Figuring out what you like developing or building the most.
  2. Being really good at it.
  3. Use those skills to make a massive impact in the world.

Following these steps can help you live the best version of yourselves.

Fixed Mindset Vs Growth Mindset(IM#18)

Everybody is talking about mindset. What is exciting is- mindset change the meaning of effort. The meaning of failure is defined by the mindset.

Fixed mindset is a thinking process where success is about their talents and establishing their superiority. It is the culture of genius.

Growth mindset is a thinking process where success is doing the best and improving and never minding about failure as long as they can see improvement. It is about improving ourselves each time.

Being is growth mindset is about changing our thinking process.

We should stop worrying about being smart and avoiding failures instead we should accept failure as the footstep towards our next success. Most importantly, we should just observe, learn, execute, improve, pursue our dream and start going with our life.....

The Myth of "Fake it till you make it"(IM#17)

Somebody told us that we have to look the part to win. That's why we are obsessed with faking it until we make it. When we are faking ourselves, it means we are living the life in defense; we are living the life of illusion. We are living someone else life. 'YOU' never live when you are living someone else life. And nothing is more heartbreaking then living some one else life. And most tragic thing about "fake it till you make it" is we are fooling only the looser not the winners.

For the sake of faking it until you make it we avoid our suffering not realizing the avoidance of suffering is the form of suffering. We deny failure not realizing the denial of failure is a failure. We hide our shame without realizing that hiding what is shameful is itself a form of shame. Will Smith said it beautifully- " We spend money we haven't earned on things we don't need to impress the people we don't like."

" We spend money we haven't earned on things we don't need to impress the people we don't like."

- Will Smith

Behaving like other people is hiding our real feeling and our thoughts. A study published in the Journal of Consumer Research found that people who tried to prove their worth to others were more likely to dwell on their shortcomings. Ambitious professionals who wore luxury clothing in an effort to appear successful, and MBA students who wore Rolex watches to increase their self-worth just ended up feeling like bigger failures.

We have to be aware that this is a game. This game is not with others but with ourselves and living "OUR" version is the best way to be in the game.

If you're living someone else life, when you're living YOURS.......?

The Choice (IM#16)

Give a little more.

Stay open for receiving.

Be prepared for next adventure of life

Play the game of long run.

Embrace possibility.

Live your life on offence.

Start with your purpose.

Tell the truth.

Give best on every work. Little wins are big wins.

Seek opportunity, mainly when you feel nothing is left.

Practice patience.

Guard your reputation.

Enhance fearless faith.

Practice the habit of gratefulness.

Learn to forgive.

Pray for others, especially who have don't like you and and have mistreated you.

Be humble.

Keep your promises.

Show up.

Never doubt yourself.

Do work that matters and takes you a step towards your purpose.

Take responsibility.

Make your mom proud.

Develop empathy.

Talk progress.

Sense happiness.

Give credit.

Interconnect ideas.

Keep encouraging yourself.

Be inspired by your work.

Make attitude your allies.

Leap.

Experiment.

Live.

Breathe.

Because we are designed the live the best version of ourselves and we can. It is up to us that motivates us. So it leaves us with the CHOICE. And our choice can change everything....