Sameer Khadka

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It's A Time To Reverse-engineer. (IM#46)

Do you really need to do the things you're doing? how much of what you are doing now will take you a step closer towards your goals? Are they really important?

If not it's a time to take a deep breathe and stop and reverse engineer....

It's a time to step back and look at yourself and accept all the things you've done already. Things may look different, your past actions may seem scary but its okay. How can you move forward without accepting those scary things and worst version of yourself?

How ca you make a right decisions without appreciating what you already have?

It's a time to reverse-engineer.....

Being Overwhelmed Is The Part Of The Journey. (IM#45)

There is no proper definition for life. It is just like the chess game. Just like there is no perfect move in chess, there is no perfect definition for life. It depends on context, it depends on circumstances and situations.

Life is not always linear or peaceful and in the way you wish it to be.  It can be scary and overwhelming.

But.... if you're not overwhelmed, it means you're not growing. Being overwhelmed is the part of the journey. It is the way you progress.

Each Day is Vital. (IM#44)

Our lives are the sum of our each day just as human body is the sum of the cells. If our each day is beautiful, blissful, we will have a wonderful life.

Many people keep their daily records in their journal. Some people share their ideas as a blog. Each day becomes purposeful and meaningful and this can change the outlook of the life. But the important thing is we should spend each day by performing the things we love to do.

At the end of the each day, we've to be satisfied and proud of the things we did that day and also envision the better or fantastic tomorrow, which then manifests itself.

Living a wonderful life starts by living each day to the fullest and living in the present.

Our Problems Are Lessening. (IM#43)

Everyday we are growing and the problems we face are decreasing. The problems we face a day earlier enhance our skills, knowledge and abilities and make us able to tackle other problem of same kind. We stop telling those things as a problem instead we call them a foundation for our next win.

But the thing about human is they are skeptics and its normal because after all that is the human nature. Being skeptics help us to better understand situations and circumstances. We don't learn if we aren't skeptic. This is the way we progress.

We devise different technology for the problem we face today hoping that the same situation would not obstruct us in our way to next move. This is how the problem we face are declining. And this is a good news.....

Transforming Characters. (IM#42)

To succeed, more than ability, we should have character; a self-loving, self-believing character.

We learn about the best way to make money because we feel that we don’t have enough money already, we stand in front of the mirror and start affirming how happy we are because we don’t feel we are happy already. We follow dating and relationship advice because we don’t feel we are lovable already. Hence, we should start by accepting what we are.

After all, we should understand the hard reality of life that everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting negative experiences....

A Self-fulfilling Prophecy. (IM#41)

When we act as though we like someone we start to really like them. An Adelphi University called this study as, "Believing Another Likes or Dislikes You: Behaviors making the belief come true" proved it.  Researchers told that the volunteers ended up liking the unrelated subject they volunteered on.

It is analogy with respect begets respects, love begets love and like begets like....

As Wayne Dyer said,' When we change the way we look at the things, the things we look at change."

I Was Wrong...(IM#40)

.........it was not our success that drive us forward, rather it is our failure.

It is our failure that provokes us to give it one more try because of the unwavering faith we have in our faith....

What Frightens Us The Most? (IM#39)

We waste our time proving somebody else over and over how great we are, when we can experience and learn a lot.

Becoming is better than being...

What ever we are today is not our maximum potential; it is just the shadow of what we can truly achieve. If we think we have ability, we should always be open to learn more because growing is always about stretching ourselves to learn something new- it is about developing ourselves.

It is not the darkness that frightens us the most but it is our lightness because we think that our lightness is the limit but it's not, we can still win a lot more than what we had recently won.

Find Your Spark. (IM#38)

You can't find your spark anywhere on the books, videos or the motivational speeches. You have to dig down deep inside yourself to claim your spark.

You've to be quite and and listen to your soul, mind, body and spirit and ask yourself the question- maybe the most important question for human race-

"Why I'm here in this planet-The Earth.....?",

"What's my purpose.....?"

This triggers us to make our each forward action in alignment with soul, mind, body and the spirit. And if we don't have the answers to those questions, our mind provokes and pushes our spirit and body to search for the answers.

Being Busy Vs. Being Productive. (IM#37)

This might be the must subtle yet important thing that should be considered by everybody. We all are going to be busy most of the time whether we really are or we pretend to be one.

Whatever it is we should always question ourselves that are we just busy or we are busy and productive? This should be the question we should be asking ourselves whenever we are busy.

Being busy is not always the opposite of being productive. For those who work for others, being busy is their job no matter whether that is productive or not.

But everyone else, we should try to be productive not the busy.