Sameer Khadka

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Who Wrote My Dream?

Have you ever wondered why you dream about certain things, why a particular song keeps playing in your head, why you suddenly forget someone's name, or why you sometimes say something you never intended to say? We often assume we are in complete control of our thoughts, but are we really?

Jung's cbelieved the unconscious mind was much more than a place where forgotten memories and hidden desires are stored. It constantly influences our thoughts, feelings, dreams, and behavior, often without our awareness. Freud had already delivered the humbling news that the ego “is not master in its own house.” Jung went further: the unconscious isn't only where we hide things; it's also a source of guidance and creativity.

Consider the chemist August Kekule, who described seeing a snake biting its own tail in a dreamlike state. This image helped him arrive at the ring structure of the benzene molecule. We might experience something similar when we go to sleep thinking about a problem and wake up with a possible solution. Sometimes the mind continues working even when we are no longer consciously directing it.

Perhaps our recurring dreams, unexplained feelings, and sudden interests are worth paying attention to. They may reveal something about ourselves that we have not yet consciously recognized. Not everything carries a hidden meaning, but understanding ourselves requires looking beyond what we already know.

Perhaps self-discovery is not simply about controlling our thoughts, but also learning to listen to what emerges within when we are not consciously directing them.

Jung put it this way in a letter: “Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.”