Sameer Khadka

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Seeing Things Differently (IM 851)

What we do everyday becomes a habit and we are the reflection of what we do everyday.

Based on your past experiences we make assumptions and conclusions on many things including our ourselves and our potentials.

The way we talk to others or to ourselves reveals our character. The way we deal with different situations shows our strength and weakness. Every step we take is the reflection of our character, our mindset, our loopholes, our worth and ourselves as a whole.

So before taking any action we got to realize and ask ourselves: what does this mean to me? Does this mean something more? Is it really that important? Why is this happening? What is the best approach to deal with this situation?

This might enable us to see everything differently...

Check  Apple’s “Think Different” idea.

The Three Components: From Meditations (Book XII) (IM 850)

In book XII of Meditations, Marcus Aurelius writes that we are composed of three components:

  1. Body
  2. Breathe
  3. Intelligence

Body and Breathe are in our control; they are in our trust. Intelligence is to have clear title of everything...

Being a Fool in The Right Place (IM 849)

Ray Bradbury once said, “We’re all fools, all the time. It’s just we’re a different kind each day. We think, I’m not a fool today. I’ve learned my lesson. I was a fool yesterday but not this morning. Then tomorrow we find out that, yes, we were fool yesterday too."

We, humans, can't run away from being a fool because we are humans and it's a nature. We shouldn't be ashamed of being a fool as we can't skip this.

We predict on everything. We have opinions about anything. We judge people and things as 'good' and 'bad'. These are the reasons we are fooled because the truth is we are very bad at prediction (Most people argue on this but there is no point of arguing because this is a fact).

The point is not to avoid predicting and not to stop being fool; it is to to be fool at right place. The point is to avoid prediction in big subjects that may hurt us in the future -  it is to be fool in smaller matters not in the large.

Check this out for the result of predicting the future.

Fixed vs Growth: The Two Mindsets That Shape Our Lives (IM 848)

Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck, in her remarkably insightful book Mindset: The New Psychology For Success, highlights the differences between the fixed and the growth mindsets. She believes that the "fixed mindset" assumes that our character, behavior, talents and creative ability is static and can't be improved in a meaningful way. A "growth mindset" on the other hand embraces challenges, sees failure not as a result of unintelligence.

A "fixed mindset" confirms the deterministic view of the world while the "growth mindset" confirms the greater sense of freewill.  Carol Dweck found out that intelligence and personality can be developed and it is not an innate trait. She writes:

For twenty years, my research has shown that the view you adopt for yourself profoundly affects the way you lead your life. It can determine whether you become the person you want to be and whether you accomplish the things you value. How does this happen? How can a simple belief have the power to transform your psychology and, as a result, your life?

Believing that your qualities are carved in stone — the fixed mindset — creates an urgency to prove yourself over and over. If you have only a certain amount of intelligence, a certain personality, and a certain moral character — well, then you’d better prove that you have a healthy dose of them. It simply wouldn’t do to look or feel deficient in these most basic characteristics...….

I’ve seen so many people with this one consuming goal of proving themselves — in the classroom, in their careers, and in their relationships. Every situation calls for a confirmation of their intelligence, personality, or character. Every situation is evaluated: Will I succeed or fail? Will I look smart or dumb? Will I be accepted or rejected? Will I feel like a winner or a loser? . . .

There’s another mindset in which these traits are not simply a hand you’re dealt and have to live with, always trying to convince yourself and others that you have a royal flush when you’re secretly worried it’s a pair of tens. In this mindset, the hand you’re dealt is just the starting point for development. This growth mindset is based on the belief that your basic qualities are things you can cultivate through your efforts. Although people may differ in every which way — in their initial talents and aptitudes, interests, or temperaments — everyone can change and grow through application and experience.

Do people with this mindset believe that anyone can be anything, that anyone with proper motivation or education can become Einstein or Beethoven? No, but they believe that a person’s true potential is unknown (and unknowable); that it’s impossible to foresee what can be accomplished with years of passion, toil, and training...…

Furthermore, Dweck also argues that "fixed mindset" constantly seeks for approval and makes people do anything to get the approval while "growth mindset" creates a passion for learning rather than a hunger for approval. Dweck writes:

Why waste time proving over and over how great you are, when you could be getting better? Why hide deficiencies instead of overcoming them? Why look for friends or partners who will just shore up your self-esteem instead of ones who will also challenge you to grow? And why seek out the tried and true, instead of experiences that will stretch you? The passion for stretching yourself and sticking to it, even (or especially) when it’s not going well, is the hallmark of the growth mindset. This is the mindset that allows people to thrive during some of the most challenging times in their lives.

Dweck in her book explains more about the difference between these two types of mindsets and why one should choose "Growth Mindset" to succeed in life. She also explores how these fundamental mindsets form, what their defining characteristics are in different contexts of life.

PS: Here is more about the difference between fixed mindset and growth mindsets.

Modern struggle (IM 847)

It's the toughest struggle and tragedy is everybody faces it...

It is a struggle of setting our boundary against modern distractions. There are lots of distractions in the modern world from Facebook to Instagram, Snap to twitter that takes most of our time. The addiction of Drugs, Porn, foods, video games are real and too hard to resist.

All these big corporations like Facebook, YouTube, Amazon, Netflix, Nestle, Snapchat, Nike, and many more are standing against us making us addicted towards it and we can't do nothing about it.

This is our modern struggle. It's our own struggle and no one is going to help us in this struggle other than ourselves.

We can't predict (IM 846)

Take an example of 9/11, the surge of GameStop, AMC in today's market. Nobody predicted it a month ago or even a day ago. Humans overestimate what they know and underestimate what they don't.

Tragedy is that the more information we gather the more confused we become and prediction becomes less accurate. We just can't predict.

From Eastern Philosophy.... (IM 845)

....... "There is nothing more visible that what is secret and nothing more manifested than what is minute, hence a man must be watchful over himself when he is alone."

Behind GameStop, AMC, etc.. (IM 844)

The market has been crazy since Chamath Palihapitiya, Elon Musk and few others twitted about GameStop (ticker: GME), a video game company which was terribly hurt by Coronavirus.

The company was heavily shorted by some most popular hedge fund Melvin capital. But the investors has gone crazy through the conversation in Reddit. The stock price is up more that 1500% in a month and as of now its $412.

Not only GME, other heavily shorted stocks like AMC, BB, NOK, BBBY, etc. are also up. This short squeeze  is hurting institutional investor a lot while the retail investors are enjoying it. Not to mention, this is life time opportunity for some of the investors.

Even though this rapid increase in the stock price does not follow any fundamentals, the millennials do not care. Some game a typical name as a meme investor, not value or growth investor. But is this going to hurt the normal investors? How will this effect the future of the market? This is yet to be known.

How To Find Peace - From Bhagavad Gita (IM 843)

In Hindu's religious book Gita, Lord Krishna explains a way to find peace.

To find peace, one should be completely detached from everything because things or object that give rise to desires which enhances anger. One should also give up the cravings for pleasure, attraction, fear or anger to find peace. He meant that detachment is not that you own nothing but rather nothing owns you which is a way to find peace. Also, one should not try to control oneself because our senses attack us with the violence.

Seeing, sensing, and experiencing things without attraction or hatred develops one’s temperance which ultimately helps in finding serenity. In serenity all the sorrows get disappeared and one’s understanding becomes clear whish is the root of peace. One should also be disciplined with themselves because this helps in understanding inner power. Without understanding inner power, peace cannot be attained.

Moreover, when we act without craving and without possessiveness and without desires, we can find peace.