All of it comes to one point (IM 773)

And that is self awareness... Self-awareness is enlightening ourselves. Whatever we gain or lose, all the successes and failures will make no sense when we are self-aware.  All the rejections, guilt and insecurities does not exist in the face of self-awareness. Self-awareness is the end point and the beginning point of everything. And this is how it should be. Nothing can move us if we are self-aware of our situation. But the tragedy is we are underestimating it...